Fractured Trust: The Fight Against a School's Cover-Up
Echos in the halls....
Whats done in the dark will shine in the light...
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Our story begins....
In the twisted, shadow-drenched corridors of a middle school where reality contorted and folded in on itself, a nightmare unfolded. My Daughter, caught in the relentless grip of a predatory teacher Patrick, found her world shattered. Each day, the air grew thicker with unspoken horrors, the classroom transforming from a place of learning to a theater of torment. The walls seemed to whisper the sins they housed, a silent chorus of despair.
She reached out, her voice a trembling whisper to the school's administration. Promises of action echoed back, hollow and insincere. The school, desperate to maintain its pristine facade, wove a web of lies and deceit, silencing witnesses, burying evidence. Assistant principal Philip and Danny , eyes darting nervously, orchestrated the cover-up, documents disappeared, and the truth suffocated beneath a veneer of respectability.
A father, driven by love and fury, stormed into the scene like a force of nature. His quest for justice was relentless, a beacon of light in the murky depths of institutional corruption. He demanded answers, his voice resonating through the corridors of power. But the bureaucratic machine ground on, cold and indifferent, and his defiance was met with resistance at every turn.
The School Resource Officer Danny, a figure of authority meant to ensure safety, became another cog in the machine. His badge, once a symbol of protection, now tainted by complicity. Reports falsified, evidence suppressed, all in the name of preserving the school's image. The father’s demands for truth were met with an arrest, a calculated move by those in power to silence his voice.
The community, once blind to the corruption, began to awaken. The labyrinthine lies of the school could no longer hold. The father’s arrest for speaking out marked the nadir of this twisted tale, yet the truth clawed its way to the surface. In the end, the echoes of the wronged shattered the silence, leaving the raw, unfiltered reality exposed for all to see.
The investigation revealed a tale of institutional betrayal, a school that chose its reputation over the safety of its students, a police officer who failed in his duty to protect, and a father who would stop at nothing to seek justice for his daughter. The walls of the middle school, once impervious, now trembled under the weight of scrutiny and truth.
The emotional journey of a family in such a distressing situation would be deeply complex and overwhelming. Here's an exploration of what I've experienced: Fury: Discovering that their daughter's repeated complaints of sexual harassment were ignored would likely ignite a profound sense of anger. The father's frustration would be directed not only at the perpetrator but also at the institution that failed to protect his child. Desperation: Feeling powerless and desperate, the father would be driven by an intense need to seek justice and ensure his daughter's safety. This desperation might lead him to take bold, outspoken actions. Fear and Anxiety: The father's anxiety would be twofold - worrying about his daughter's well-being and fearing further retaliation for his advocacy efforts. The stress of potential consequences would weigh heavily on his mind. Betrayal: The sense of betrayal would be palpable. The father trusted the school to provide a safe environment for his daughter, and their failure to address her complaints would feel like a profound breach of that trust. Determination: Despite the obstacles, the father's determination to fight for his daughter's rights would be unyielding. His love and commitment to her well-being would fuel his relentless pursuit of justice. Hopelessness: Facing arrest for speaking out, the father might experience moments of hopelessness, questioning whether his efforts would make a difference and feeling isolated in his struggle. Resilience: Ultimately, the father would draw upon his inner resilience, channeling his emotions into a focused and unwavering resolve to protect his daughter and hold those responsible accountable.
Transparency is fundamental in our childrens rights....
A parent's world is fundamentally centered around the safety and well-being of their child. When transparency is lacking, especially in the context of something as grave as sexual harassment by a staff member, it shatters that world in several painful ways:
Betrayal of Trust: Schools are institutions where parents trust that their children will be safe and nurtured. A lack of transparency breaks that trust, leaving parents feeling betrayed by those who were supposed to protect their child.
Anguish and Helplessness: Without clear information, parents are left in a state of agonizing uncertainty. The not knowing - what happened, the extent of harm, and what is being done about it - intensifies the pain and frustration, rendering them helpless to support and advocate for their child.
Erosion of Confidence: When details are obscured, it erodes parents' confidence not only in the school system but also in the larger framework meant to protect victims. It can feel like a systemic failure, further amplifying their fear and anger.
Righteous Indignation: The lack of transparency can spur feelings of righteous indignation. Parents expect accountability and transparency to ensure justice and prevent future harm. Their anger is not just about their own child but also about protecting other potential victims.
Determination for Advocacy: While painful, the situation can also ignite a fierce determination in parents to fight for transparency and justice. They may become vocal advocates for policy changes, increased oversight, and better support systems for victims.
In essence, the absence of transparency in such serious matters leaves parents navigating a storm of emotions, from betrayal and helplessness to anger and determination. Their primary goal becomes advocating for their child's well-being and ensuring that justice is served.
If a senior officer doesn't verify the facts of a case and relies solely on the word of a cop known for being dishonest and manipulative, several negative consequences could arise:
Miscarriage of Justice: The integrity of the investigation and legal process could be compromised, leading to wrongful arrests, convictions, or the dismissal of legitimate cases.
Loss of Public Trust: The community's trust in the police department could erode, resulting in a lack of cooperation from the public and increased scrutiny of police actions.
Internal Conflict: Within the police department, morale and trust among officers may decline, creating a toxic work environment and undermining teamwork.
Legal Repercussions: The department and senior officers could face legal action for negligence, misconduct, or civil rights violations, leading to costly lawsuits and potential penalties.
Career Consequences: The careers of those involved, including the senior officer, could be adversely affected, with potential disciplinary actions, demotions, or terminations.
Reputational Damage: The police department's reputation would suffer, possibly affecting its ability to recruit and retain qualified personnel.
It is crucial for senior officers to thoroughly review and verify all information in a case to ensure that justice is served fairly and accurately
"Officer POS, you have failed in your duty to protect and serve. Your actions have not only harmed my family but also eroded trust in the very institution you're supposed to uphold. You have manipulated the truth and abused your power, and it's unacceptable. As a father, I expect accountability and justice for what has happened. You have no right to wear that badge if you can't uphold the values it stands for. My daughter's safety and well-being are more important than your lies and misconduct. This isn't just about one case—it's about restoring faith in our community and ensuring that no other family has to suffer like we have."
I was called a liar, I won't show all my receipts...
Phillip Mitchell failed to appear in court for the Protection from Abuse (PFA) order he filed against me. This no-show not only wasted valuable court resources of an already strained legal system. The time and effort spent preparing for and scheduling the hearing could have been better utilized to assist genuine victims in need of protection. Such actions undermine the efficiency of the judicial process and divert attention from cases that truly require immediate intervention and support.
an email from Ron May/title IX coordinator, to confirm him contacting about how to file a complaint...little to late huh ronny?
Bradley Finkeldei Vice Mayor/usd497 attorney
Currently serving as Vice Mayor
A conflict of interest arises when a public official's personal interests could improperly influence their official duties. In the case of a vice mayor who also serves as an attorney for USD 497, several potential conflicts of interest could emerge:
Decision-Making Bias: The vice mayor might prioritize the interests of USD 497 over the city's interests, leading to biased decision-making.
Confidential Information: The vice mayor could have access to confidential information from both roles, creating a risk of misuse or unintentional disclosure.
Resource Allocation: The vice mayor might influence the allocation of city resources or funding to benefit USD 497, potentially at the expense of other city needs.
Legal Representation: If the city and USD 497 have conflicting legal interests, the vice mayor's dual roles could compromise their ability to represent either party impartially.
The public might view this situation with suspicion, questioning the vice mayor's ability to remain objective and act in the best interests of both the city and USD 497. Transparency and clear boundaries are essential to mitigate these concerns and maintain public trust.
For more information on conflicts of interest in public office, you can refer to resources.
Was he an unwilling protagonist? Did the school manipulate and construe the events to entice him to trespass a father from all USD497 properties. He may also be a victim of this situation, orchestrated by the school officals.
if anyone has questions feel free to reach out to his Vice Lord @
bfinkeldei@stevesbrand.combfinkeldei@lawrenceks.org
Was he an unwilling protagonist? Did the school manipulate and construe the events to entice him to trespass a father from all USD497 properties. He may also be a victim of this situation, orchestrated by the school officals.
if anyone has questions feel free to reach out to his Vice Lord @
bfinkeldei@stevesbrand.combfinkeldei@lawrenceks.org
Questions for the mayor.Disclosure and Transparency:
Can you disclose any financial interests or relationships that might influence your decisions as mayor?
Have you received any gifts or gratuities from vendors, contractors, or suppliers that could create a biased perception?
Decision-Making and Influence:
How do you ensure that your personal investments or financial interests do not conflict with your duties as mayor?
Can you explain how you separate your personal interests from your public responsibilities?
Contracts and Agreements:
Are there any contracts with the municipality in which you or your family members have a financial interest?
Do you have control over any contracts or agreements that could be seen as a conflict of interest?
Ethical Conduct:
What steps do you take to avoid conflicts of interest in your role as mayor?
How do you handle situations where a potential conflict of interest arises?
Public Perception:
How do you address concerns from the public about potential conflicts of interest?
What measures do you take to maintain transparency and trust with the community?
Danial affalter Jr.
Officer for Lawrence Police dept and School resource officer
I assume he's a police officer because he only made Cs in school, doesn't have a backbone, cannot admit when he's wrong, won't ever own up to anything, he wears the Badge of Narcissism, and Reaks of gaslighting...
Perjury: Providing false statements under oath, such as in affidavits, is considered perjury. This is a serious offense that can lead to criminal charges and penalties.
Obstruction of Justice: Lying on police reports can obstruct the legal process, hindering the investigation and prosecution of crimes. This can result in charges of obstruction of justice.
False Reporting: Submitting false information in official documents, like police reports, can be classified as false reporting, which is illegal and can lead to criminal charges.
Violation of Civil Rights: If the false information leads to wrongful arrest or prosecution, the officer may be violating the civil rights of the individual affected. This can result in both criminal and civil penalties.
These actions undermine the integrity of the justice system and can have severe consequences for both the officer and the individuals involved.
Dan Affalter Jr. failed to report my daughter's allegations of sexual harassment to school officials. In a previous lawsuit, he arrested a rape victim and now has had a father arrested simply for asking questions and seeking answers. I've provided a link for more details.
Affalter agreed to resign from the KU Police Department as part of the plaintiff's terms. Why would he agree to this?
He has no business being a police officer or protecting anyone. Why did USD497 hire him as a School Resource Officer (SRO)? Why did the Lawrence Police Department employ him?
This situation reeks of nepotism, with the sentiment of "You know who my daddy is?"
.https://casetext.com/case/horocofsky-v-city-of-lawrence-4
Patrick Naughton
wrestling coach and PE teacher for Usd497
nothing much to say about him really, my daughter has accused him of some nasty behavior.... and why does he have a wresting club registred out of his residence?
why did my ada step down? she owes us answers, why would she prosecute a father for only wanting answers? I believe she has her hands dirty with prosecutable misconduct.
Madeline Bjorklun
Richard Lockhart
1. Harassment and Stalking: The undersigned has been subjected to a pattern of persistent harassment and stalking by officers of the Lawrence Police Department. These actions, which I am prepared to document in detail, have created a hostile and intimidating environment, causing significant emotional distress and apprehension for my personal safety. I hereby demand an immediate cessation of all such conduct. Furthermore, I reserve the right to seek a restraining order against any and all officers involved in these unlawful activities. 2. Unlawful Interference with Probation and First Amendment Rights: It has come to my attention that members of the Lawrence Police Department have engaged in inappropriate communications with my probation officer, attempting to exert undue influence and pressure to initiate a violation of my probation. Specifically, these communications pertain to my exercise of First Amendment rights, which are constitutionally protected. This interference is a direct violation of my rights and constitutes an attempt to circumvent due process. I assert that any attempt to manipulate my probation status based on the exercise of protected rights is unlawful and will be met with vigorous legal challenge. 3. Demand for Immediate Action and Reservation of Rights: I hereby demand an immediate internal investigation into these matters and a direct, unequivocal order to all officers within the Lawrence Police Department to cease and desist from any and all harassment, stalking, and unlawful interference with my rights. 4. Reservation of Legal Remedies: I am a highly intelligent and thoughtful individual, and I am fully aware of my legal rights and remedies. I am prepared to pursue all available legal avenues to protect myself, including, but not limited to, civil litigation and criminal complaints. I reserve the right to publicly disseminate information regarding these matters, including the creation of a dedicated website, should the Lawrence Police Department fail to take immediate and adequate corrective action. Please consider this a formal notice of my intent to pursue all available legal remedies should these unlawful actions continue. I expect a prompt and detailed response outlining the specific actions the Lawrence Police Department will take to address these serious concerns.
Dear Chief Lockhart,
I hope this message finds you well. I would like to bring to your attention the complaints that have been previously submitted to Sgt. Rhodes. A copy of these complaints was also provided for you.
Sincerely,
James Killian .
Dear Sgt. Justin G Rhoads,
I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to follow up regarding the matter we discussed concerning my daughter. While I understand the complexity of jurisdictional issues, I was disappointed by the way the situation was handled and the tone used during our previous interaction.
As a parent advocating for my child, it was disheartening to be dismissed when pressing for action. I’ve since noticed that the individual in question has a charge here in Lawrence, which suggests that further steps may indeed be possible within this jurisdiction.
I believe it’s important to revisit this matter to ensure justice is served and to foster a more understanding and respectful dialogue in the future. Please let me know if you’d be open to discussing this further.
Thank you for your attention to this matter.
Best regards, James
I expect retaliation....
Resilience and Experience: I may have experienced similar situations before and developed resilience and a thick skin over time. They know how to handle difficult circumstances. Legal Preparedness: Having a strong legal team and confidence in their attorney's abilities can provide a sense of security. Knowing that they have legal defenses in place and have anticipated possible reactions helps them stay calm. Support System: A robust support system, including family and friends, can provide emotional strength and encouragement. Knowing that they have people who stand by them helps reduce fear. Conviction and Integrity: A person may have strong personal convictions and a sense of integrity that drives them to stand up for their beliefs, regardless of the consequences. This inner strength makes them less fearful of retaliation. Understanding of the System: Familiarity with the legal system and the county's processes can demystify the situation and reduce fear. Knowledge is power, and being informed about their rights and the procedures involved can empower them.
Andrew Taylor.... Principle at Billy Mills
.As a father, there’s no greater joy than watching your child grow, thrive, and showcase their achievements. These milestones—however small—are reminders that the sleepless nights, the sacrifices, the relentless striving are all worth it. And yet, there are moments when the very system that should nurture and celebrate our children becomes the source of anguish and disappointment.
I had looked forward to my daughter's student conference for weeks—a simple yet meaningful moment to sit beside her, listen to her progress, and celebrate her efforts. But that opportunity was stripped away from me, not because of scheduling conflicts or personal emergencies, but because of the school’s attempt to cover up their own mistakes. Mistakes they were too proud—or too fearful—to admit.
The toll this takes on a father is profound. It’s not just about missing an event; it’s about the erosion of trust, the helplessness of knowing you couldn’t be there for your child when it mattered most, and the frustration of battling an institution that seems to prioritize self-preservation over honesty. Every time I looked at my daughter’s hopeful eyes, I felt a pang of guilt and anger. She didn’t know the politics behind it all. All she knew was that Dad wasn’t there.
The impact manifests in small yet heart-wrenching ways:
The missed chance to encourage her as she spoke about her favorite subject.
The absence of a proud hug after hearing her teacher’s praise.
The look of confusion when she asks, "Why couldn’t you come, Dad?" and my answer feels inadequate.
To the school, it might seem like just one conference. To me, it was a moment I’ll never get back. A moment to make her feel seen, valued, and supported. No parent should ever have to fight for the right to be involved in their child’s life, especially not due to bureaucratic missteps or institutional pride.
As I write this, I hope for change—not just for me, but for every parent and child who might face something similar. Schools should be places of trust, partnership, and transparency. Because when the system fails, it’s not just parents who bear the toll; it’s our children who quietly suffer the most.
A teacher's primary responsibility is to educate and support their students within the school environment. Inquiring about a student's involvement in a legal matter, especially one concerning their safety, falls far outside this scope.
* Teachers are not law enforcement officers, nor are they legal investigators. They have no authority to conduct interrogations or gather evidence for legal proceedings.
* Potential for Undue Influence/Coercion:
* Teachers hold a position of authority over their students. Even seemingly casual questioning can be perceived as pressure, especially for a child or adolescent.
* If the website and lawsuit are sensitive, your daughter might feel compelled to answer Dr. Barker's questions, even if she's uncomfortable or unsure of the implications. This could lead to her providing information that could be used against her or compromise the legal proceedings.
* Breach of Trust/Compromised Student-Teacher Relationship:
* Students need to feel safe and secure in their relationships with their teachers. Questioning a student about a sensitive legal matter can erode this trust.
* Your daughter may feel betrayed or violated if her teacher is probing into her private life, particularly regarding a situation that involves her safety.
* Potential for Emotional Distress/Psychological Harm:
* A lawsuit regarding a child's safety is inherently stressful. A teacher's questioning could exacerbate this stress, causing anxiety, fear, or even trauma.
* Schools should be safe havens for students, not places where they are subjected to questioning that could cause emotional harm.
* Interference with Legal Proceedings:
* As with a doctor, a teacher has no place in the legal process. Any information gathered by Dr. Barker could be deemed inadmissible or could complicate the legal proceedings.
* It also opens up the possiblity of the teacher being accused of interfering with a legal process.
* School Policy and Legal Obligations:
* Most schools have policies regarding student privacy and interactions with law enforcement. Dr. Barker's actions could violate these policies.
* Also, if the pending lawsuit involves the school, or school personal, then the teacher has a clear conflict of interest.
In essence, Dr. Barker's actions would be inappropriate because they overstep their professional boundaries, could cause emotional harm, and potentially interfere with the legal process.
would you like me to share the emails?
Dear Mr Quention Rials
can you explain your comment in a recent email .
Victim Impact: For individuals who have come forward with allegations, such a statement might feel dismissive or invalidating of their experiences. It may appear to undermine their credibility or seriousness, even if that's not the intent.
Emotional Timing: In emotionally charged situations—such as during public allegations of misconduct—saying this might seem to lack empathy for those affected, as it could come across as prioritizing legal principles over human emotions.
Cultural Perception: In a society that values holding individuals accountable, the phrase may inadvertently signal a reluctance to believe or support alleged victims.
Power Dynamics: When accusations involve powerful figures, the statement could be interpreted as protecting the accused rather than focusing on fairness for all parties involved.
your comment in this email was nugatory and very insensitive.....
About us
In the warm embrace of our home, love and kindness are the threads that weave our family together. We are a unit bound by mutual respect, intelligence, and unwavering support. Our family thrives on shared values and the joy of each other's company.
Our daughter is the radiant star of our lives, a beacon of beauty and intelligence. Her journey has been one of incredible growth and resilience. From her early years, she displayed a natural curiosity and a keen mind, soaking up knowledge like a sponge. Her laughter is infectious, her presence a light that brightens our darkest days. She has come so far, overcoming challenges with grace and determination, making us prouder with each step she takes.
My wife is the cornerstone of our family, a woman of remarkable strength and dedication. Her love is a steady current, guiding us through life's ebbs and flows. She possesses a quiet resilience that inspires us all, handling every obstacle with grace and unwavering resolve. Her support and unwavering commitment to our family's well-being are the foundations upon which we build our dreams.
Together, we are a family that cherishes each other, finding strength in our unity and love in every shared moment. Our bond is unbreakable, our hearts forever intertwined in the tapestry of our lives.
Not an uplifting Family Story
To expose the truth and to make sure everyone is held accountable, This is my Families story of what happened to us at usd497 Lawrence Ks.
Feedback
As a former district court clerk, I have seen many cases pass through the courtroom, each with its own unique set of circumstances. However, few have left me as disappointed and disheartened as the prosecution of the father who was merely fighting for his daughter.
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anoyomus
As a deputy, I have witnessed the legal system at work from the inside, and I must say, the prosecution of the father who was advocating for his daughter left me deeply disappointed.
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Deputy
That poor child..... prayers for the whole family. why is he still teaching at the schools?
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Linda Ritter